Let's be honest, there isn't anything that wonderful about being 40+ weeks pregnant. It's not the end of the world, but it's also not the best. Here are some of the realities:
1. EG can literally stand underneath my belly and I can't see her at all. I realize that if you've been pregnant, you stopped seeing your feet sometime around week 30-35, but there's something particularly extra special about loosing your child when she's standing right in front of you.
2. Every single different pain or movement by the baby makes you think you might be in labor. This kid loves to move, and with it's head down where it's supposed to be, sometime those movements reverberate through my hip bones and around my back- not labor, but don't I wish it was.
3. Sleeping is a thing of the past. Yes, this happens around week 37 or so for every pregnant woman, but typically you're only dealing with this for about 2-3 weeks. Now that I'm past 40 weeks, it's been almost a month of not sleeping. Of course, once the baby comes I might be wishing I had the sleep I used to....
4. Everyone keeps asking. I'm so so so so so so so so tired of people asking if I'm still pregnant. Making commentary. Saying things. Just leave it alone. Don't you think I'm already tired enough?
5. Everyday feels like it's the one, and then when it isn't it's so disappointing. It's sort of crushing that you might imagine that something is finally happening, and then it's not. Each day you wake with a 'is it today' feeling, but then it's not...
6. At least the baby is doing well. At the end of the day that's the most important thing.
Here's a sneak peak of the photo shoot we did with our AMAZING photographer Laura Layera. She's absolutely amazing (she's typically a wedding photographer, but she's done three sessions for us so far, and I know we'll be doing a 6-month session with B2. I stole the photos from our viewing session, so they aren't the best quality, but I couldn't help but share.
All of these photos are copyright by Laura, but I did want to share their beauty- it makes it better to be 40 weeks pregnant when you realize that it's okay, and you look fine, and then you remember that the baby will come, in it's own time.